触动的不是电影的情节，而是平平淡淡如同微风吹过不留痕迹的青春，虽风起风过没有一点痕迹，却有真实的感觉难以放下。青春都是拿来挥霍，最后再拿来回忆。如今的自己不在年少，但还是被另类的青春波动的泪流满面。结尾于一没有去到香港，没有可以和冰在一块，却选择了去做一名船员，像麦哲伦那样环游世界，这是他的青春梦。他追上了自己的梦却丢了喜欢的人。冰没有如同愿望那般和于一在一起，永远在一起，最后的她选择了出国留学然后在香港成为白领，最终抓到的只有一份工作，丢失了梦却最终找到了于一对他的情。他们互相都喜欢着对方，却无法在一起了，因为他们丢失了青春，失去了在一起的时机。有时一个人躺在草坪上纠结，为何青春抓不住，却还要那般轰轰烈烈，会有那么纯洁不掺杂生活的“我喜欢你”，明明最终要失去，最终不能活成青春里自己的样子，却还是会在青春里义无反顾，那时的自己好真。如果可以，只想做那个不懂大人世界，不懂生活的少年。最终时间推着他们成长，冰终于理解那句话，“有时候大人的世界小孩不懂”，她也成为大人，有时候长大只是突然的事情，假小子的冰也会给父亲端上一碗热气腾腾的面，面对喜欢自己要离开的男孩也有眼泪，不再那么决绝的拒绝。看到那个本子的时候眼泪已经夺眶而出，青春单纯的只是把我有的都给你。紫薇并没有逃脱命运，但遇到了真心喜欢的管哥，想和他平平淡淡的活下去，于一再错失时机后才意识到对冰的情感，他们都面对生活没有骄傲下去，把自己融入了生活，即使美如他们的青春，也留有遗憾。二十多岁男生最穷的时候，却也是女生最美的年纪。我能遇到自己真心喜欢的女生不是遗憾而是自己的幸运。喜欢的那个人会永远都在我心里。我喜欢你，贯穿整个青春。你一直在我的世界里。

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搜索葛优的电影，看到了这一部，感觉应该蛮有意思，于是便看了。片中是一个大家庭，我家也是一个大家庭，所以能找到一点相似的地方。只不过按照实际人数算的话，我们家要比片中的一大家子还要大，只不过现在我们家是四个孩子，我和我的三个姐姐。跟二萍一样，我有两个姐姐的对象最初都不是家里同意的，但是最后还是拗不过。因为孩子大了，有自己的想法，最重要的是，毕竟是自己的孩子。就像知道二萍要回去之后，李保田饰演的父亲仍然很气愤地说“我没有她这个女儿”，但是真正孩子回去之后，叫了一声“爸”，他的心立马就软下来了。大儿子软弱，大媳妇儿凶悍，爱财。看到婆婆手上的金戒指就想要，大川买了给她之后她更是推辞都不带推辞的，厚黑学的专家，脸皮厚心黑。大儿子只有在喝醉酒之后才能发狠，而她的媳妇儿着实比他更狠。二儿子是研究生，还找了一个高干的女儿做女朋友，更是借此得到了一个宝贵的调研机会（好像是调研吧，反正就是一次出去学习的机会），但是需要一笔钱，于是跟老子借。按照道理来说，老子有钱，如果只有一个孩子的话，肯定会毫无疑问给他，不会拒绝。但是这个钱是准备给没结婚的两个儿子结婚的，而且小儿子没读多少书，本来就对他的二哥有意见，现在知道爸爸给钱他肯定更不愿意，所以爸爸应该有考虑到这一点，才不愿意给钱。但是二儿子知道爸爸有钱，而且一是担心自己没钱去不了学习，二是担心没钱的话女朋友那里肯定会有意见，类似看不起之类的，所以饭桌上就拉下脸来了。也与自己的弟弟争执起来。小儿子也不是个好东西，不学无术，没有工作游手好闲，找了个女朋友也不怎么样。片中的大姐夫妻俩的矛盾不在于钱，最大的矛盾在于感情。大姐夫好色，甚至不愿意养孩子，在大姐有了身孕之后还逼她堕胎，最后被人找到家里来。就这么来看，当初不被父母同意的二女儿的对象，倒是最好的。至少片中想表达的是他没有什么不好的地方，两个人也很幸福。说明：虽然父母在结婚找对象这方面的意见确实很重要，但不可能每一次都绝对正确，或者必须绝对服从。父母只是从他们自己的角度去评价一个人是否能够做自己儿女的另一半，但是自己应该有自己的一种评价标准。父母总有离开自己的一天，而自己是要跟自己过一辈子的。最后，房间里乱成一团，大哥终于把多年以来对自己婆娘的怨气通过酒劲给发泄了出来。就像人家说的：正常情况下越是脾气很好的人，真正发起火来越是极端厉害。一家子人，到了过年的时候也不安生，回来过年只是图个父母的积蓄罢了。因为是影视作品，但是在现实中不是不存在，只不过不会这么极端。现实中即使是一家人，也会有利益冲突，主要就是集中在各自成家立业之后。只不过不像电影里那样各自图父母的钱，至少我家不是。本来是一个家，后来成了五六个家，家家有本难念的经。最后说一句，电影一开始没多久，李保田为赵丽蓉老师拔火罐的时候的台词：-我不在家的时候你怎么办？-忍忍呗！当时就差点哭了。两个人，得性格合，而且得互相珍惜疼爱，最重要的是，心得往一处想。有类似经历的人，看到这样的电影，便会有格外的感触！2013.9.14 22：20

最后双胞胎和妹妹的男朋友，到了牛头村，发现其他双胞胎亡灵，但是镜头晃到屋子楼上窗户好像是她们的爸爸在关窗？后来姐姐也说感觉被人窥视着，这一块我没有看懂，谁能解答？另外在我看来绫子是好鬼，那为什么结局牛头掉下来后又出现绫子的脸？双胞胎的外婆也死了，她存在的目的是什么？就算诅咒没有结束，和绫子应该也没有关系了吧？

He daren't to look up the sky, he daren’t to see the same one.

Nomadism

Scarcity of the recognition of Israel, he came to France, the country is the synonym of liberty, equity, fraternity. As a member of the nomadic tribe to plunge into the territory of freedom., he worships french is the god's tongue and bought the french dictionary as the bible to take everywhere. He stands on the crossroad of different cultures and become a hybrid. Israelis have the tradition of nomadism, they have a great aptitude to adapt to a new environment. Nostalgia maybe never in their dictionary and the identity never exists in their ideology, they can leave when they feel the intension between their mind and the outside circumstance and they will back when they tired of strolling.

The civil war is the catalyst for the host to make the pilgrimage to France, like the other countries' refugees, he wants to start the new life from scratch. Saving money for daily expenses and do some disgraceful jobs to maintain break even. He is a typical example of a refugee in nowadays' Europe, eager to have a sense of belonging in the new cultural environment.

Intruder

The ideal is one thing but the reality is another, Even though he tried his best to live in France but always be an outsider exclusive from the western democracy. He was the inferior citizen (even not account a citizen at all) who can't get any recognition. Then the struggling guy becomes an intruder as he participated in the Isreal army to vanquish the enemy. He met the other Israel guy who had the same job with him and became the intimate comrade. they drunk in the club chatted with the locals, on the subway they sang the anthem of Israel, But no one, had any reactive and respands, they show how isolated and be neglected by the surroundings. What they can do was joined the divinity organization and smash the new fascism to resist the indifference and prejudice. The lack of respect makes him irritant and bad tempers, he grumbled in the public and shouted to his friends. The more he feels disappointed and cheated unfairly the more he would transient to an intruder to fight back.

Nude

Life is nude from the beginning, but our body became a political one when we grow up. To the philosophic perspective, nude is the purity and away from any social restraints. When we join the social life agenda our body is not only reflective of our biological flesh but also what France philosopher Michael Foucault's concept "bio-politics" and Italian philosopher Agamben‘s concept "bare life". The functional of society is to discipline the citizen in it and let them obedience to the creeds of it, so our life in begin as the white paper also the "bare life" to the mechanical entity

disciplined all the social norms, all the body and mind are being surveillance and regulated until to the death. So nude is the primitive also the ultimate status for us.

In the movie, the host is nude when he came to France, all the outfits and inner mind are transplanted by the new game. He had nothing only his looks not bad body, the masculine muscle physique is his first and only bucket of gold in there and also the reason why the couple wants to rescue him from the danger of death. What he can take advantage of is to use his stories to satisfy the guy's writing inspiration and his succulent body for the girl’s mental orgasm. He also wants to cater to the eccentric hobby of the producer because his body is the only treasure he has and make the swap with the material life. Nude is the ticket for him to have the qualification to live in the country.

When he sang the anthem of France in the classroom with all the other candidates to take the preparation to integrate into the society, When he eligible to marry the girl and got the eternal residence right to live in the society, hardly can he feel any identity recognition and the sense of belonging. So he got insane in the music hall and asked the questions what he recited in the classroom to the public but only gained the same silence as he experienced in the bar and metro. His body can be and only can be the merchandise in the country but his soul would wait in the outdoor forever like the movie's ending.

We will always hold an optimistic view about the globalization and immigration, we think we are the open-minded human can embrace everyone regardless of their nationality, religion, race, gender and sexuality, culture is the bridge to let us admire the diversity but also is the door to exclude us truly accept the diversity.

特别有战斗力。表妹推荐的，一看名字真是土到家了。看着看着就着迷。一共18集，我两天看完的，第一天晚上看到凌晨五点多，第二天看到三点多，终于追完。需说明的一点，我不是个追剧狂，在寝室也很少看电视，电影，短视频。这一年来没看过几集电视剧，电影也没超过五部。《欢乐颂》《楚乔传》《人民的名义》等热播的电视剧我都没看，或者连续的看也没超过两集。

说说自己喜欢这部剧的原因吧。①高颜值。看封面看得出来哈，所有的演员自己都喜欢。②真善美。如花似玉用他们就真诚善良和努力感动周围的人，也感动了我。剧中一切都很美，人、事儿、物、服装、造型、场景……③有强烈的共鸣。同样是大学生，情感差不多，也经常遭遇挫折，和所爱的人也是相爱相杀……④主题曲和插曲都很好听。歌词很符合自己的心情。⑤欢乐大于悲伤。⑥让人更有动力。⑦叫人学会勇敢。勇敢去对自己喜欢的人说“我喜欢你”，勇敢的去拒绝因感激而想要成全的爱情，勇敢的坚定对爱的人好的方式，勇敢的面对生活的一切不幸，勇敢的去承担责任……⑧三观很正。⑨人物角色丰富。⑩……

最后一点，强烈推荐看。一个拼音不好，打字又慢，普通话又不标准的我。居然码了这么多字，都佩服自己。写这些东西的动力真的是因为这部剧给了自己太多的东西。让我勇往直前毫无畏惧。

同有位网友所感。PS:方洛这样的男（性）朋友给我来一打！

看了前十集，小成本的良心制作，沙雕风格，欢乐组团，演员全部在线，颜值也够，主演小七，太棒了，听说是第一部戏，大女主可以的，几个配角戏太多了，很有特点，一个直男憨憨搞翻全场，哈哈哈哈哈，直男的温暖方式是一起跑步，你受得了吗？哈哈哈哈哈，女反派很好看，看颜值都不觉得坏，不知道后面有没有反转，加油加油