所以被冷落的叶珊的感受根本不值得考虑。闲言碎语才是需要考虑的第一要素。比男性强的结果,就是男性都受不了你。没有男朋友就是因为女性太强了。真是看得人莫名其妙。 百年以前,简爱就说过: Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain, and little, I am soulless and heartless? You think wrong!- I have as much soul as you,- and full as much heart! And if God had gifted me with some beauty and much wealth, I should have made it as hard for you to leave me, as it is now for me to leave you. I am not talking to you now through the medium of custom, conventionalities, nor even of mortal flesh;- it is my spirit that addresses your spirit; just as if both had passed through the grave, and we stood at God's feet, equal,- as we are! 爱情正是两个平等的灵魂之间产生的感情。很难想象,觉得地位不平等的两个人能产生什么真正的爱情。 比如,叶珊和方俊。