最近终于下决心要做个短视频UP主了，按我的领域，只能从影视下手了。于是就准备找槽点，今年行情特殊，网大爆发了不少。顺着盗墓的IP，这部剧自然也是要看的。

不说别的，女主黄奕，老表演艺术家了。我的第一直觉是，这是网大界的顶流了呗，何况刚刚看了阿娇演的《河豚》，让我不由的又想起了几个人，明道、郭采洁、陈学冬这还是有戏演的，还有很多过气了，根本就无戏可演。难不成真的要像“大风吹”的歌词一样，欢迎来到九零年代；无力吐槽，功夫明星们更是要命，释小龙，谢苗只 存在记忆里，赵文卓是B站去年的大梗。

然后看看短视频里的一些顶流，一颦一笑就获赞上万，黄奕们还演啥戏啊！还看到一个老歌唱艺术家：孙耀威。哇，如果不是刷抖音，以为这位前辈消失了，这是谁给扒出来的。情怀这东西就是对自我缅怀的流量。

既然借这个电影的宝地，自然吐槽两句，影视界，女明星当然新鲜的永远有市场，男明星反之。看看男主，赵达，估计将来网大接的会越来越少。这片拍的逻辑有些乱，特效都在预告片里了。还有那个银花？ 总以为是凤凰传奇当男女主角了。

Thoughts:

1. what a delicate strong woman.

2. the more I know her, the more I love her.

3. we have to build the foundation first which is to love ourselves.

4. I can relate to the mental struggles so hard.

5. no matter how complex and messy inside, you are still enough anyway.

6. I cry, I feel, and look back to myself, one broken inside also, feel powerful.

......

last but not least,

she's so freaking beautiful.

剧情毫无逻辑，反映年代除了服装和场景，就毫无代入感了。人物性格描绘单一，都是一根筋，跨度十几年毫无进步的那是人吗？比上一部禽满四合院都不如，一般都是见进步，怎么还有开倒车还猛踩油门的？套了一层京味外皮的狗血烂片，这种剧叫停吧，浪费资源。阵容不错，演技再好那也是悲剧，挽回的余地都没有。编剧且不说，导演转行吧？片子怎么剪的，通篇流水账，咱好好的当个剧务肯定是一流的！

一部充满家庭温馨情感的作品，主要讲述了父亲和女儿奇幻般的交换了身体，不得不使用对方的身体生活，在现实中遭遇各种不便的同时，也逐渐更深刻地理解对方，重新找回被遗忘的亲情的故事…………………！！！挺好的一部轻喜剧电影，适合假期与小伙伴一起观看…………！…！！！！………充满了家庭的温暖！！！！！！！！！！

很多人看这部电影都觉得女二很漂亮，说她温柔贤淑，仙气飘飘，皮肤白皙，却还能风情无限，说得女主都成了配角，我也这么认为的。

最终女二为了爱情牺牲自己，也算在女主男主的爱情里留了一道痕迹，虽然男主没有喜欢过她，但是还是舍不得杀了她。

这部电影，演员演技还行，男主是《琅琊榜》的祁王，女主走可爱路线的。男主一人分饰两角色，不出戏，演技棒棒的。特效可以，剧情很连贯，可能跟是改编小说有关系。至于有人说，也没有多好看，大哥，中国国产电影电视根据网络小说改编的失败作品还少吗，在中国要求不要太高，你是没看过网络热门小说改编成电视剧的尴尬，不胜列举。君请看:斗破苍穹，三生三世十里桃花，择天记，扶摇，回到明朝当王爷之杨凌传，九州系列，盗墓笔记系列……烂的惊心动魄，烂的荡气回肠。好不容易看到个能看的，当然要大加鼓励。

曾经的我 幸福满足I was once happy, content,徜徉在只属于我的羊水之中sloshing around in my own private, primordial pool.结果有一天 由于不可抗拒的因素Then one day, for reasons beyond my control,我母亲莱丝丽的子宫I was repeatedly crushed...一次又一次对我残忍地施加压力over and over by the cruel cervix of my mother, Leslie.我顽强地抵抗了 却终敌不过大自然I put up a good fight, but I lost,这是我人生第一次败仗 之后更是节节败退

我厌弃所有人 除了你I hate everyone else in the world but you.

茱尔丝 你自残吗And, Jules, do you self-injure?事实上 茱尔丝讨厌自己The truth was, Jules hated herself.她讨厌自己大脑的运作方式She hated how her brain worked...她的大脑会因一个想法而卡住the way it would get stuck on a thought,从而噎到自己like choking.专注于当下All right. Keep present.大脑会陷入无尽的循环And it would just play on an infinite loop,直到她停止思考until she couldn't think无法呼吸 濒临死亡or breathe or stand to be alive.克服并非易事 茱尔丝This is hard, Jules.你一定可以挺过去You're going to get through it, okay?但她不仅讨厌自己的大脑She didn't just hate her brain, though.她还讨厌自己的身体 但不是每个部位都讨厌She hated her body, not every part,只讨厌肩膀 手臂just her shoulders, and her arms,双手and her hands.还有胸部 腹部 大腿Also her chest, her stomach, her thighs.她最讨厌膝盖了Her knees were the worst.还很讨厌脚踝和肥大的双脚Plus her ankles, and her big, fucking, stupid feet.她讨厌自己的人生 并非因为过得不好She hated her life, not because it was bad,而是因为 痛恨自己的大脑和身体之人but because when you hate your brain and your body,很难享受人生

每当她被虐得很惨时...And whenever anything got too uncomfortable...茱尔丝就假装自己灵魂出窍Jules would just imagine that she wasn't really herself,她其实在旁观别人的生活and this wasn't really her life.她只是虚构作品中的一个虚构人物She was just a character in a book or a movie or a show.一切都是假象 即便是真 又能如何呢That none of it was real, and if it was, how did it matter?这具身体本就不属于她It's not like her body ever really belonged to her in the first place.

我没有特别喜欢的事情There's nothing I'm really passionate about.没有非要做或说的事You know, like, I'm not dying to say or do anything, really.每次我向大家坦露心迹And every time I admit that to people,他们都会觉得这样很可悲 但是...they're like, "Oh, my gosh, that's so sad." But...我觉得多数人都是如此I think that's the case for most people.我妈是如此You know? Like, when I look at my mom or...我同学也是如此like, the kids at my school--从他们社交媒体上的动态就能看出来like, their profiles or their posts and their Tumblr rants...大家也都过得稀里糊涂 迷茫无助you realize they're all just fucked up, too... and lost.只是他们都得掩饰真相...They just have a reason to mask it...为了不让家人担忧whether it be, like, their, their families拴住男友 博取关注or their boyfriends or their hashtag activism.他们都只是借助表面的光鲜亮丽And they're just reaching for something-粉饰人生的虚无 -小茹...- to make it all seem meaningfu

麦迪从小就很了解自己Maddy knew who she was from a very early age.从麦迪记事以来 她就是万人迷For as long as Maddy could remember, everybody loved her.

她不知自己为何受欢迎She never knew exactly what it was.她只知道自己很特殊She just knew that she had something special,气质迷幻朦胧something intangible,魅力无人能及something immeasurable.

她因此充满自信And it gave her confidence

她也是因此热爱选美That's why she loved pageantry,因为冠军不必容貌倾城 高挑精干because you didn't have to be the prettiest or the tallest也不必金发碧眼 肤如凝脂or the blondest or the whitest.自信闪耀就够了

You just had to have fucking confidence.嘉年华当晚 和卢克·卡斯滕打炮时So the night of the carnival, while fucking Luke Kasten,凯特顿悟了Kat had an epiphany.她居然上了卢克·卡斯滕She was fucking Luke Kasten,那他妈可是卢克·卡斯滕啊Luke motherfucking Kasten.没上过东高的人可能不知道...And for those of you who didn't go to East Highland...卢克·卡斯滕可是男神Luke Kasten was a fucking god.他毕业多年 可学校里依然有他的传说I mean, he graduated years ago and people still talk about him.他有我见过最大的鸡鸡He has the biggest dick I've ever seen,他上我时 我一直盯着他看and I was looking at him while he was fucking me.他射精时I could see his face scrunching up我看到他的脸皱成一团when he was coming all over my stomach,我突然就顿悟了and I had this, like, realization, you know, like, this epiphany.无论这个人有多酷帅性感That no matter how cool, or, or sexy不论他在你眼中有多聪明or, or smart you think a guy is,其实都卑微渺小得可悲可怜they're actually just fucking pathetic.

我一直试图减弱自己的存在感my whole life, all I've tried to do is to take up less space.

企图避开那帮男人Try to hide from guys, like, who might, like,因为我经过时 他们会对朋友悄悄吐槽whisper to their friend under their breath as I walked by.我这一生I've spent my whole life都在担心大家会发现我是个胖妞afraid people were gonna find out that I was fat.但说实话 根本没人在意But honestly, who gives a shit?

无所畏惧的胖女孩所向披靡There's nothing more powerful than a fat girl who doesn't give a fuck.

高中的情谊转瞬即逝 并非天长地久Nothing in high school lasts forever.你该见见她You should meet her.

Are you kidding me?你被罚下了You're out of the game.冲动就会输球You get emotional, you lose.动怒就会输球You get angry, you lose.-爸 他说我是... -无关紧要- Dad, he called me-- - I don't give a good goddamn.你觉得他为什么偏偏说你呢Why do you think he's talking to you in the first place?-因为他... -因为他想激怒你- Because he-- - Because he's trying to get a rise out of you.扰乱你的思绪 让你分心Trying to make you upset, lose focus.他在挑战你的底线 这就是生存法则That's his game. That's the world's game.他们不断逼你They want to push on you,逗弄你 考验你的极限Poke on you, see exactly how much you can take.极限会决定你能走多远And how much you can take is what will ultimately define you.因为应对之道可以衡量人的品性Because the measure of a man is in how he reacts.我该如何应对How am I supposed to react?将自己的所有情绪By taking everything you feel,挫败感 愤怒 狂暴all your frustrations, your anger, your rage,统统收起you bottle it up,守住本心you take your position,当情绪累积至顶峰and when that snap comes,将其化作喷薄而出的动力you let it explode.

她几乎每次都会心软答应And she almost always said yes.尽管她很不情愿 也会照做Even though it didn't always make her feel good.她知道 多数男生跟她分手后And she knew that most guys, after she broke up with them,都会散播她的性爱视频和裸照

would always share those photos or videos.她刚发现时 恐慌心悸The first time she found out, she had a panic attack,她甚至想吞扑热息痛自杀and wanted to swallow a whole bottle of Tylenol.但最终打消了自杀的念头But she didn't.因为大家顶多言语上对她讽刺挖苦Because, I mean, what's the worst thing anybody could say to her?无非就是嘲笑她给渣男口交而已That she gave a blowjob to a guy who didn't deserve it?而且 她觉得等到毕业求职那会儿And she figured by the time she was out of college and looking for a job,绝大多数人都有过裸照的黑历史了99 percent of the population would have leaked nudes, anyway.

一想到要站起来The thought of having to stand up,移动35英尺 每走一步要调动172块肌肉exert 172 muscles each step for 35 feet,就为了坐在冰凉的陶瓷坐便器上just so I can sit on cold porcelain日复一日地排出体内毒素and piss out toxins over and over again for the rest of my life我就觉得人生是一个漫长且磨人的玩笑makes the whole concept of living feel like one long, sadistic joke.但抑郁最磨人的一点是But the absolute worst part of depression你明知自己抑郁了is that even though you know you're depressed,却依然无可救药地越陷越深you're unable to stop yourself from getting worse

抑郁的另一症状就是The other thing about depression is让人丧失时间概念it kind of collapses time.突然之间 全部记忆混杂交织Suddenly, you find your whole days blending together无穷无尽 令人窒息to create one endless and suffocating loop.抑郁后 人会试图回想愉悦的瞬间So you find yourself trying to remember the things that made you happy.但大脑会一点点蚕食欣快的回忆But slowly, your brain begins to erase every memory that ever brought you joy.最终And eventually,脑中仅剩人生中沉闷压抑的记忆all you can think about is how life has always been this way.人就会日渐消沉And will only continue to be this way.

曾经有个心理医生说 我压抑的状态会起起落落I had a therapist once who said that these states will wax and wane.我妈因此松了一口气Which gave my mother relief,因为就算我犯病了because it meant that in the bad times,总也会好起来there would be good times.但她也因此焦灼难安But it also gave her anxiety因为就算我一时没事because it meant that in the good times,总也有抑郁发作的一天there would be bad times.我一直很不解It always confused me,因为我不懂"起落"的意思because I didn't really know what it meant.但听起来比我自己的形容更让人安心But it did sound a lot calmer than the way I would describe it.我得继续服药There you go. How you feel? Okay?我知道你现在很低落 宝贝I know you're feeling low right now, baby.但你没有故态复萌 说明你的症状有所缓解But the fact that you didn't turn back means you're gettin' better.没错It does.一定是这样It does.当然了 我之后才领悟到Granted, I didn't realize until later"起起落落"的真正含义what waxing and waning implied.抑郁无法根除 会反复发作That these feelings were fixed and constant我的余生都将与抑郁作伴and would never end for the rest of my life.

我住院观察了三天And kept me there for three days.其实住院可好了It was actually really nice.我超喜欢医院I love hospitals.要是余生都能在医院度过 我绝对没意见If I could spend the rest of my life in a hospital, I would.因为住院时Because when you're in a hospital,可以做个米虫you have zero responsibilities.医护人员会保证你吃饱睡好 身体棒棒They make sure you eat, sleep, stay hydrated,如遇不测 医生总能及时出现and if anything bad happens, there's always a doctor nearby.谢谢Thank you.发生大规模枪击案时 待在医院最明智了It's also the best place to be in the event of a mass shooting,只要外科医生没死光光就行unless the gunman kills all the surgeons.关键是 我在医院无忧无虑The point is, I had zero anxiety.

我昨晚写信时and as I sat down last night to write it,忍不住回想你出生那天的场景I couldn't stop thinking about the day you were born.我第一次将你抱入臂弯Holding you in my arms for the first time,怜爱地看着你looking down at you,看着你可爱动人的小脸your sweet, beautiful face...我这辈子从未如此充满爱意 欢欣愉悦I had never felt so much love and joy in my entire life.于是我想到...And I thought that...若是那一刻 有人能提醒我该多好what if in that moment I heard a voice,通晓万物的人生旁白对我低语some omniscient narrator who said,"接下来将会如此""Here's what's going to happen."你的女儿将会风趣幽默 聪明伶俐 开朗大方""Your daughter is gonna be funny, and smart, and outgoing,"她的灵气从小便会显现"You'll see it instantly, from a young age.""她将会魅力四射 广交朋友""She'll be charismatic and make friends easily.""她将会温柔善良 心思细腻""She'll be kind and sensitive."细腻到敏感""Maybe too sensitive."她不会是个乖乖女""She won't be an easy child."她会很叛逆"She'll struggle.""因此 你将很难看懂她""And in turn, you'll struggle to understand her.""你将跟不上她的思维""To understand what's going on inside of her head."无法理解那些难以摆脱的梦魇""The night terrors that can't be interrupted."很多时候 晚饭后""The times after dinner where"她会坐在餐桌旁""She'll just sit at the kitchen table"一遍遍数着天花板砖的数量and count the tiles over and over,"数到自己上气不接下气""Until she hyperventilates."你会用尽全力拥她入怀 安慰她""To fight to hold her in your arms, to tell her it's okay.""你们将难以平静 她会摔打东西 大吼大叫""To calm down. The kicking. The screaming."她会害怕受伤""The anxiety of being harmed."她会日夜煎熬""The transitions from day to night,"从家中到学校 每顿饭皆是如此""From home to school, from meal to meal."她会担心失去父母和妹妹"Of losing her mother or father or little sister.""她害怕会孤苦伶仃"- "Of being alone."我很喜欢她I really like her."她会恐慌发作 情绪波动 迷惑不解 精神分裂""The panic attacks, mood swings, confusion, disorganization"她会愤怒狂躁""And all that rage."不仅生你的气 也会恼恨自己""Not just at you, but at herself."最煎熬的是...""And the tough part i"她无法自救 而你也将束手无策""you'll feel as helpless to help her as she does herself.""你将犯下大大小小的错误""You'll make mistakes. Small ones and big ones."你会慌忙求助 病急乱投医""You'll look for help from people who aren't helpful."你求助之人或许根本不了解情况""Or who don't actually understand what's happening.""内疚感将因此伴你终生""And the guilt will never leave you.""但若你保持镇定 温柔耐心""But if you remain calm and patient,"若你能仔细聆听""If you listen closely,"你便能渐渐理解她""理解她为何重复地数了一遍又一遍""The counting, the repetition,"理解她对于对称的执着""the need for symmetry."若你睡前亲吻了她的左脸""That if you kiss her left cheek before bed,"一定也要亲吻她的右脸""You have to kiss her right cheek."还有额头 下巴""And her forehead. Then her chin."因为这样才平衡稳定""That it's about balance, stability."这样她才能疏导情绪 捋顺思绪""The need to organize her feelings and thoughts, so..."这样她才能平静下来"she can breathe easier.""你将得到片刻的喘息""And there will be moments of relief,"你们俩都能松一口气""In her and in you."这些时刻平静安宁 顺心满足""Moments that feel so normal, and calm, and rewarding that..."你会希望平淡的幸福能够天长地久""You'll find yourself praying they last forever."可她还小""Even though she's only a child,"糟心事还在后面呢"And all the hard parts have yet to even come."16岁时""And at the age of 16,"她会吸毒过量""She'll overdose,"昏迷四天""Spend four days in a coma,"生死未卜""And you won't know if she'll live or die."但等她醒来""But when she wakes up,"她会有机会戒毒""She'll be given the opportunity to get clean,"改过自新""To become a different person,"完善自己""A better person."但有一点你无能为力""Here's the toughest part."不论你怎么说 怎么做 怎么想""No matter what you say, or do, or wish,"决定权都在她手中""The decision will be all hers."你只能心怀希望""And all you can do is hope"希望她能给自己一个重新来过的机会"

凯特Kat.万一现在就是我们人生的高光时刻呢What if these are, like, the big moments in life?我妈总说Like, my mom always talks about高中是她人生的里程碑式高光时刻how high school was like this big, monumental part of her life.可她都半老徐娘了 居然还对高中念念不忘But I cannot imagine being 40 and looking back at this, like, "Wow."因为多数人在高中达到了人生巅峰Yeah, but that's because most people peak in high school.我肯定还没达到巅峰...I definitely haven't peaked, so...我感觉自己还没长大呢I feel like I'm not even a person yet.我也就攀登到巅峰的四分之一吧Yeah, I'm definitely at, like, 25 percent peakness.我好像达到巅峰了I feel like I'm at a hundred.但我还能升得更高But I can definitely get to 150.讲真 我都没想到自己能撑到现在Honestly, I never thought I'd make it this far.什么意思What do you mean?我总是提心吊胆 惶惶不安I don't know. I just always had, like, this overwhelming anxiety我总觉得一定会出事that something bad would happen.说实话 去年夏天In all fairness, last summer,我有三周一直以为你死了there were, like, three weeks where I thought you were dead.

腾远学院新来的转学生颜晓希，养父曾是乒乓球高手，在养父的言传身教下，颜晓希打得一手好乒乓。颜晓希是个自立自强的女生，不仅打多份工贴补家用，还运用自身娴熟的球技参加球赛，挣取奖金交学费。腾远学院乒乓球社团社长齐景浩，是一个帅气的乒乓球高手，一次偶然他见识到颜晓希出众的球技，因此力邀颜晓希加入乒乓球社团，共同携手赢得全国学院杯冠军，颜晓希的加入让社团注入新的活力，乒乓社团日渐壮大。虽然说有一点狗血，但是无聊的时候可以看一看

1:如今浮躁的虚伪的社会，很少又这种朴实无华的自然的，大城市拥挤资源分配不均匀，大力弘扬年轻人回乡建设，致富农村的道路，所以感情戏不是主线，重点是年轻人为这些农村做了什么，怎么做？也给了了为一些思考我们村的出路，这是编剧用心的地方，演员演技各个在线，剧情不煽情，不做作，2020劳动节我去了江浙沪周边的农村考察了几天，我的感受是，江浙沪的农村值得全国其它农村学习，他们的优势是距离大城市近，消费人群有，我看见有评论说对农村有误解，这是偏见的，这部剧的目的是给农村致富找出路，你们也不要算人家农村这么好，本人去过，电视剧里的村还是是最好，比里面好的村多了去了，只是你们没见过，我想象在江浙沪工作的人去过都知道这不假，所以没见过的就不要酸，演员都是集典型代表的类型的，配角阵容强大。

2：如今社会的一股清流，引导正确的价值观，致“福“的道路，让农村家庭能在家的就不用出去。这里表达了很多问题，一个是留守儿童，老人。一个是如何解决让年轻人愿意回来 一个是中国是个农业大国，通过劳动可以致富，一个是现在我们的农村面临的问题如何去解决，一个农村的概念已经改革，创建家家都有钱赚，有好日子过的点。年轻人也可以当书记，不要轻视年轻人。

3：我不可思议的是，豆瓣居然没有什么分，我们中国是农业大国，电视剧里传达的是，我们能建立一个榜样农村，目的是希望中国的农村都往好的方面发展，看，已经有人实现了的这个梦。

4：编剧的用心是，市场上是视频里到处都是情情爱爱的题材，难得看见一部不是以情爱为主的年轻主角，让我们看到一股清流，又符合当下农村的现实。用幽默的叙述方式来表达。

所以，那些给1星的人看懂了吗？这是一部建设新农村，带领农村走向致富幸福的道路的剧，不是狗血爱情剧。

连看两部不同团队的作品真的很跳脱。。风格完全不同，第一部复古华丽处处透着高贵，许愿也是男主光环机灵十足技能满点；这部明显质朴许多，许愿也是下了神坛到处惹祸?? 黄烟烟从名门大小姐一下变成一北京大妞还能进了局子，比第一部真实了很多啊。唯一没变的就是药不然贼别扭的“哥们儿”，咋听咋别扭，还传承下来了- -

就是这剧情有点太儿戏。素姐扯个清明上河图野史的故事许愿居然就信了，虽说确实有王世贞是兰陵笑笑生的猜测，但是他借写金瓶梅毒死严世蕃以拿回清明上河图也太扯了- -严世蕃被斩首这是写在史书里的事实，许愿作为五脉传人这点历史都不知道还玩啥玩，活该被人玩- -

残片对比也儿戏力max。大家也太信任许愿了，而且怎么可能就恰好双龙小印那个碎片没有被烧尽。虽然以这部许愿的智商，他真的会相信这个残片是真的，但是这种智商的许愿还被委以这样的重任，将完全不知来路、没有鉴定的残片拿上台对比，而且最后由许愿这个并不熟悉书画鉴定的人来一锤定音清明上河图的真与赝，是不是有些太可笑了。

整个鉴墨这段的故事核心真的有点过家家。

本影评是我的一些碎碎念

等了好久终于有资源了，以前找遍了全网别说字幕了，连资源都没有，好不容易找到了，却下不动，而且连英文字幕都没有……

相比于上一部的群像刻画，这部时隔多年的续作把矛盾冲突笑点和表达内容更集中起来，放到了几个角色身上。（作为脸盲，我已经忘了第一部其他角色和剧情了）

弗叔也是难为他了，在这部电影要大喊大叫歇斯底里，要喝酒蹦迪，即使白白胖胖的身材也要成为露肉担当（误）还要老年破产，要被戴绿帽，要上天吓尿裤子，要跳海自杀…还好演员没啥地位包袱。

电影剧情比上一部简单了，但大家在朋友的基础上，还是得互相隐藏一些不堪难言的故事（像上一部那样各有各的小小的白色谎言），里面也展现出了羡慕嫉妒，拖泥带水，贪嗔痴疑等等作为人的情绪，挺好，只是没上一部流畅。

本片不仅展示了朋友的相处（不论好坏方面），也加了许多亲子的情节，男二和小女儿（男二也变得成熟了有责任了许多），暴躁女和儿子，还有大人们坐在一起调侃男主儿子不敢和那对姐妹花一起****（什么鬼d(?д??)他还是只是个孩子啊）

“所谓的朋友并不是要一直在身边，是在需要的时候，他愿意出现支持你”点睛之笔，出自那位看起来呆呆的，有点白目的小哥，也算大智若愚吧（后面自己却复述不了自己说过的话，囧）

朋友和你闹翻了，说了很多气话，大家都赌气不再联系，慢慢的时间过了好多年，但一想起不愉快，好像就在昨天，都好面子，于是和好的事一搁再搁，你认为没有他们自己也活得好好的，毕竟美好生活本来就是自己创造的。

慢慢的，你生活起起伏伏，偏偏在你最落魄的时候，他们出现了，他们觉得生日，毕业，结婚邀约等等庆祝的机会，也是你们和好的机会。

他们离开，他们出现，都没和你商量；幸好，你落魄了，他们也支持，鼓励，即使没等你反应过来～

但毕竟电影是电影，现实生活可不一定。希望大家能理解朋友之间的小小的白色谎言，也能和好朋友们敞开心扉，终将在一起

以尋找斷掌開場，原以為是引人入勝，詎料已是精鋭。幾個案例僅用来填時間，走過場，主角的專業和理性用来制約感情用事的同伴，卻也同時澆熄觀眾的熱情，因為身後人們的各種反應其實已陳腔濫調，而最令人好奇的死者生前一概未論，叙事只説了一半。最後的高潮案例也同樣以平凡的同性戀題材代入，既無意外當然亦無驚喜。

主角的放下與原諒来得突兀，只成就了平凡無奇的流水帳結局。刹那的人生遺憾的同理心總會熱淚擁眶或瞬息間的鼻酸，在這部片里感受不到。