Tomorrow is fancy, tomorrow is grand. The world wants to take you on a bullet-train ride and you can become the next legacy. Gazing back with tenderness and respect amidst the roaring tomorrows--to where your story begins--can never be easy. Safeguarding parents' fraying outlines and writing love and dignity into our pasts. I'll say that's a meaningful life.

Quotes from the title sequence:

Life flies past us so swiftly that few of us pause to consider those who have lost the tempo of today. Their laughter and their tears we do not even understand for there is no magic that will draw together in perfect understanding the aged and the young. There is a canyon between us, and the painful gap is only bridged by the ancient words of a very wise man — “Honor thy Father and thy Mother.”

地下世界充斥着贪婪，欺瞒，虚伪，奴役，弱肉强食，贫富差距，也不乏信任，感恩，敬畏，希望，奉献，所以主角会说，比起在地上，在地底更有活着的感觉

是血腥暴力末世片，也是温情人性反讽片

这样的神作这居然是一个人历时七年独立制作的

两百年站立一朝坐下瞬间爆炸的那一段简直神来之笔，有时候我们人类自以为是在造福，其实不过是为引发更大的灾难埋下伏笔罢了

<1> 闲话

九月，积压了整个暑期档的美国大片接踵而至。在一次又一次地球濒将毁灭中，超级英雄们腾空而出，代表正义、勇敢、力量完成对人类的各种花式拯救。戏剧矛盾都呈现在最显性的位置，不用你细想，快节奏的剪辑直接将结果呈现给你。无数部漫威看下来，更加明白马东在《十三邀》中讲的那句话：很多年来人类的心理结构没变化。所谓的变化，只是技术进步给世界带来的变化。无论是外星生物、科学异端甚至大猩猩，所讲述的不过是同一个故事。

九月，看到一部修复后上映的电影《失业生》。不是好莱坞的里程碑电影《毕业生》，一字之差，不仅是67年的美国和81年的香港，还是东西方年轻人所呈现出的不同文化背景的焦虑。更重要的是，这部复映的《失业生》是故去的“中环三剑客”的代表作。这部电影中记录了张国荣、陈百强、钟保罗三位日后巨星的青春岁月。彼时，三人出道不久，还未被明星制贴上标签当做消费品售卖。三人歌唱、演戏都愿意尝试，在银幕上的他们就是他们，真正的自己。那些看起来有点过火的爱憎里既有当时电影表现手法的特征，更有偶像初出茅庐打磨演技时最自然的情绪。张国荣像詹姆斯·迪恩一样，处处追寻反叛却英俊到令人不忍苛责；钟保罗乖巧而聪明，喜欢察言观色；最令人痛心的要数Danny，在一个又一个大特写里，他眼神纯净，笑容甜美，是真正的小王子。完全不见日后他神情中长期带有的那丝倦意。为此，可以说，这部复映的《失业生》应该是九月最珍贵的一部电影。作为影迷，能在大银幕上看到逝世的偶像，会有一种既亲切又释怀的感受。

因为终于看到你们，比我还年轻的样子。

因为终于确认你们，也是从这般美好走向巅峰。

因为无法再见你们，却可以走进你们的懵懂、纯真与美好。

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这个韩剧不同于其他韩剧，没有华丽的场景，没有霸道总裁，也不是简单的灰姑娘逆袭成为王妃那样的剧情。而是很现实的生活。

女主人公有两个人，西英智和郑亚美。西英智在少女时期，父亲被合伙人骗了，生意失败，母亲不堪忍受贫穷而离家出走了。父亲从那以后天天借酒浇愁，喝了酒就跟村里的人有口角。因为家境贫困，西英智没有上大学，而是早早的出来工作，做几份兼职养活家人。她有一个找不到工作但立志要做喜剧演员的弟弟，和高考失利正在复读的妹妹。因为家人的拖累，就连喜欢的银行职员崔道京也拒绝了他。她的人生变得很暗淡，就像住在鼠洞里的小老鼠。但她也有过美好的向往，尽管生活不如意，她依旧很乐观。

另一个女主角是郑亚美，是一个整形医师，高学历，高颜值，高收入。但是她因为私生女的身份，内心有些自卑。父亲当年没有娶母亲而是遵照父母之命娶了别人，从小到大经常被两个同父异母的姐姐欺负。后来虽然长大了她靠自己的努力有了成就，但是摆脱不了心里的自卑。在一次相亲时还因为母亲的身份是第三者而遭到拒绝。

两人在偶然的情况下有了交集，西英智成了郑亚美的保姆，帮她打理家务。郑亚美厌倦了相亲，但是介绍人不停地要求她去，她不得已让西英智代替她相亲，要求是破坏形象，目的是使相亲失败。没想到西英智想方设法搞破坏反而引起了相亲对象金俊宇的好感。两人慢慢有了感情。然而由于俊宇的父母反对，俩人的交往遇到了很多阻碍。父亲发现儿子的交往对象居然是穷人家的孩子，气的要死。俊宇原本想要去英智家里见她父亲，跟她父亲说明想要在一起的决心，但是被英智的父亲故意刁难。叫他陪自己喝酒，还把喝醉了酒的俊宇用水泼醒。英智回到家看到被泼了一身水的俊宇十分心疼。通过这件事，俊宇发现了两人之间由于出身不同，存在着巨大的差距。犹豫着要不要放弃。后来抵不住压力分手了。

崔道京拒绝西英智之后，有一次遇到郑亚美，惊为天人。他看到郑亚美和西英智很要好，就想办法讨好英智，以认识郑亚美。原本是想做男版灰姑娘，通过认识富婆使自己飞黄腾达。但在相处的过程中爱上了她，而郑亚美也被他吸引了。道京曾目睹亚美被两个姐姐欺负，于是跟她约定如果姐姐来找麻烦就打电话给他。不管在什么地方，他都会赶过来保护她。但是由于对出身的自卑，亚美想通过嫁给高富帅获得别人的认同，因此拒绝了道京的追求。

四个人的感情线就这样展开了。

俊宇和亚美相亲成功，准备结婚了。这时亚美的母亲从美国回来，发现在机场接她的不是亚美的未婚夫俊宇而是追求者道京。亚美告诉母亲，希望姐姐羡慕和嫉妒她，所以选择了俊宇。而母亲劝她慎重考虑，因为此时的亚美，像极了当年因为条件而娶了别人的父亲。母亲不希望悲剧再次上演。

我们都以为只要有爱就可以战胜一切，但其实不是的。两个人在一起，是需要势均力敌的。最终崔道京去国外发展事业，功成名就后回国找回了亚美。英智凭借写《小老鼠日记》一书成名，在签售会上再次遇到了金俊宇。

无论人们的家世是贫穷还是富有，想要追求美好爱情的心都是一样的。那么怎样才能和心爱的人在一起呢？光有爱情是不够的，我们还要为了心中所爱去努力奋斗，当有了自己的事业，才有追求爱情的资本。这大概就是这部剧告诉我们的事情。

这部剧追到50集，港真，陈柏霖真的功不可没。先说说槽点吧，首先剧情，那么多的不合理的、让人尴尬的地方，想着这是部偶像剧不能要求那么高，我也就释然了……其次女一号，本来也很喜欢张天爱演的张芃芃的，怎么演李南恩就这么出戏呢？真的一开口就出戏，台词、声音都不对劲～还有女二号和男二号选角好失败，倒是女三号和男三号祖玛小姐姐和吴所谓都表现还不错，所以综合考虑，决定给三星，一星给陈柏霖，一星给波尔多，一星给胡夏和刘惜君（片头曲和结尾曲）。

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2021/03/19 11：36看完。待会再写评价。首先，不得不说动画工房的制作是真的棒。弹出任务以及任务达成的那个画面很精美，我就是那种对于这些无关紧要的东西很心动的人。还有，中国字幕组的用心也让我看得很舒适。笑料虽然没让我像看《女高》《日常》那样疯疯癫癫，但也有很不错的地方。总的来说看得可以。那接着就说说一点个人的不满吧。第五集里面有关哈批（请允许我这么叫，笑）的那一段其实还是起了不少争议的。这就涉及到我想讲的一个问题：既然这是一部设定了有人类与魔王的作品，就避不开一个很传统的剧情，讲讲人魔的对立问题。哈批那句“果然你还是讨厌魔族的吧”就有一点点想把单元转成主线式的苗头。还好后面几集继续搞笑下去，没有碰这一个话题。第十一集以及终集，气氛的确有做到可以让人稍稍触动，但仔细一想很不适。因为这里的意图就是点一下作者可能想要的主题嘛。但是，既然在作品的一开始就选择了把魔族设定为不谙世事的、纯真的生物，那这个人类与魔物的冲突就很生硬。毕竟萌萌的气氛不可能做到好好显示对立主题。可能以往的什么人类和魔族互相残杀很没有新意，但那就是比较好的表现方式。魔族的不谙世事，说难听点就是设定上的幼稚。已经决定借魔族与人类公主的设定来做喜剧日常作品，还想着讲深刻或有意义的话题？或许是我个人比较鸡婆吧，反正是接受不了。如果是为了看这样一部可爱系动漫讲个体与个体的对立与理解的话，我建议还是不要看漫画的好。去看看小说或是正正经经讨论此类问题的漫画比较好。例如《尸鬼》就不错。

第一部的野心真是很大，

好多线索，

好多意象，

徐克借黄飞鸿去体验各种番物。

传递那种惊奇和戒惧的初touch

又有很多“看客”，

自我批判，

好多矛盾，

好沉重。

黄师傅忍了1个半钟头，

最有爆发力的真的是熊欣欣的代打，

又快又高。

阿苏世荣两个文武丑生来耍宝，

梁宽又要穿针引线，

拉着北气南腿两位师傅，

中美英广佛戏棚六七处势力，

衔接关外安南金山大洋几岸，

难怪两小时也搞不定。

西方是什么？

妖魔还是圣徒？

中国又是什么？

博大还是没落？

严师傅其实最让人难忘。

看字幕，挂的是李连杰和元彪双男主，

所以一结尾的时候

仿佛还不知道十三姨会选谁。

查了一下李连杰的片单

少林寺之后八年

《黄飞鸿》确实是新起点

刚要再开古装大戏就受了伤

还是准备“打”进当时

双周已成的香港电影圈

也是很难了

莽夫容易，少年讨喜

大侠毕竟是要扛大压力

“壮志凌云”不太难

“侠气冲天”???考验

还要有整个极盛期香港工业的

台前幕后一起顶起

铁布衫来，气硬功

那这么说第二部

《男儿当自强》有野起来很多

都忘了高中时候从哪里录了一盘《铁鸡斗蜈蚣》????

后来才发现就这部是王晶轧拍的

就这手气

广州班霸大罗天，真的有

曾经的我 幸福满足I was once happy, content,徜徉在只属于我的羊水之中sloshing around in my own private, primordial pool.结果有一天 由于不可抗拒的因素Then one day, for reasons beyond my control,我母亲莱丝丽的子宫I was repeatedly crushed...一次又一次对我残忍地施加压力over and over by the cruel cervix of my mother, Leslie.我顽强地抵抗了 却终敌不过大自然I put up a good fight, but I lost,这是我人生第一次败仗 之后更是节节败退

我厌弃所有人 除了你I hate everyone else in the world but you.

茱尔丝 你自残吗And, Jules, do you self-injure?事实上 茱尔丝讨厌自己The truth was, Jules hated herself.她讨厌自己大脑的运作方式She hated how her brain worked...她的大脑会因一个想法而卡住the way it would get stuck on a thought,从而噎到自己like choking.专注于当下All right. Keep present.大脑会陷入无尽的循环And it would just play on an infinite loop,直到她停止思考until she couldn't think无法呼吸 濒临死亡or breathe or stand to be alive.克服并非易事 茱尔丝This is hard, Jules.你一定可以挺过去You're going to get through it, okay?但她不仅讨厌自己的大脑She didn't just hate her brain, though.她还讨厌自己的身体 但不是每个部位都讨厌She hated her body, not every part,只讨厌肩膀 手臂just her shoulders, and her arms,双手and her hands.还有胸部 腹部 大腿Also her chest, her stomach, her thighs.她最讨厌膝盖了Her knees were the worst.还很讨厌脚踝和肥大的双脚Plus her ankles, and her big, fucking, stupid feet.她讨厌自己的人生 并非因为过得不好She hated her life, not because it was bad,而是因为 痛恨自己的大脑和身体之人but because when you hate your brain and your body,很难享受人生

每当她被虐得很惨时...And whenever anything got too uncomfortable...茱尔丝就假装自己灵魂出窍Jules would just imagine that she wasn't really herself,她其实在旁观别人的生活and this wasn't really her life.她只是虚构作品中的一个虚构人物She was just a character in a book or a movie or a show.一切都是假象 即便是真 又能如何呢That none of it was real, and if it was, how did it matter?这具身体本就不属于她It's not like her body ever really belonged to her in the first place.

我没有特别喜欢的事情There's nothing I'm really passionate about.没有非要做或说的事You know, like, I'm not dying to say or do anything, really.每次我向大家坦露心迹And every time I admit that to people,他们都会觉得这样很可悲 但是...they're like, "Oh, my gosh, that's so sad." But...我觉得多数人都是如此I think that's the case for most people.我妈是如此You know? Like, when I look at my mom or...我同学也是如此like, the kids at my school--从他们社交媒体上的动态就能看出来like, their profiles or their posts and their Tumblr rants...大家也都过得稀里糊涂 迷茫无助you realize they're all just fucked up, too... and lost.只是他们都得掩饰真相...They just have a reason to mask it...为了不让家人担忧whether it be, like, their, their families拴住男友 博取关注or their boyfriends or their hashtag activism.他们都只是借助表面的光鲜亮丽And they're just reaching for something-粉饰人生的虚无 -小茹...- to make it all seem meaningfu

麦迪从小就很了解自己Maddy knew who she was from a very early age.从麦迪记事以来 她就是万人迷For as long as Maddy could remember, everybody loved her.

她不知自己为何受欢迎She never knew exactly what it was.她只知道自己很特殊She just knew that she had something special,气质迷幻朦胧something intangible,魅力无人能及something immeasurable.

她因此充满自信And it gave her confidence

她也是因此热爱选美That's why she loved pageantry,因为冠军不必容貌倾城 高挑精干because you didn't have to be the prettiest or the tallest也不必金发碧眼 肤如凝脂or the blondest or the whitest.自信闪耀就够了

You just had to have fucking confidence.嘉年华当晚 和卢克·卡斯滕打炮时So the night of the carnival, while fucking Luke Kasten,凯特顿悟了Kat had an epiphany.她居然上了卢克·卡斯滕She was fucking Luke Kasten,那他妈可是卢克·卡斯滕啊Luke motherfucking Kasten.没上过东高的人可能不知道...And for those of you who didn't go to East Highland...卢克·卡斯滕可是男神Luke Kasten was a fucking god.他毕业多年 可学校里依然有他的传说I mean, he graduated years ago and people still talk about him.他有我见过最大的鸡鸡He has the biggest dick I've ever seen,他上我时 我一直盯着他看and I was looking at him while he was fucking me.他射精时I could see his face scrunching up我看到他的脸皱成一团when he was coming all over my stomach,我突然就顿悟了and I had this, like, realization, you know, like, this epiphany.无论这个人有多酷帅性感That no matter how cool, or, or sexy不论他在你眼中有多聪明or, or smart you think a guy is,其实都卑微渺小得可悲可怜they're actually just fucking pathetic.

我一直试图减弱自己的存在感my whole life, all I've tried to do is to take up less space.

企图避开那帮男人Try to hide from guys, like, who might, like,因为我经过时 他们会对朋友悄悄吐槽whisper to their friend under their breath as I walked by.我这一生I've spent my whole life都在担心大家会发现我是个胖妞afraid people were gonna find out that I was fat.但说实话 根本没人在意But honestly, who gives a shit?

无所畏惧的胖女孩所向披靡There's nothing more powerful than a fat girl who doesn't give a fuck.

高中的情谊转瞬即逝 并非天长地久Nothing in high school lasts forever.你该见见她You should meet her.

Are you kidding me?你被罚下了You're out of the game.冲动就会输球You get emotional, you lose.动怒就会输球You get angry, you lose.-爸 他说我是... -无关紧要- Dad, he called me-- - I don't give a good goddamn.你觉得他为什么偏偏说你呢Why do you think he's talking to you in the first place?-因为他... -因为他想激怒你- Because he-- - Because he's trying to get a rise out of you.扰乱你的思绪 让你分心Trying to make you upset, lose focus.他在挑战你的底线 这就是生存法则That's his game. That's the world's game.他们不断逼你They want to push on you,逗弄你 考验你的极限Poke on you, see exactly how much you can take.极限会决定你能走多远And how much you can take is what will ultimately define you.因为应对之道可以衡量人的品性Because the measure of a man is in how he reacts.我该如何应对How am I supposed to react?将自己的所有情绪By taking everything you feel,挫败感 愤怒 狂暴all your frustrations, your anger, your rage,统统收起you bottle it up,守住本心you take your position,当情绪累积至顶峰and when that snap comes,将其化作喷薄而出的动力you let it explode.

她几乎每次都会心软答应And she almost always said yes.尽管她很不情愿 也会照做Even though it didn't always make her feel good.她知道 多数男生跟她分手后And she knew that most guys, after she broke up with them,都会散播她的性爱视频和裸照

would always share those photos or videos.她刚发现时 恐慌心悸The first time she found out, she had a panic attack,她甚至想吞扑热息痛自杀and wanted to swallow a whole bottle of Tylenol.但最终打消了自杀的念头But she didn't.因为大家顶多言语上对她讽刺挖苦Because, I mean, what's the worst thing anybody could say to her?无非就是嘲笑她给渣男口交而已That she gave a blowjob to a guy who didn't deserve it?而且 她觉得等到毕业求职那会儿And she figured by the time she was out of college and looking for a job,绝大多数人都有过裸照的黑历史了99 percent of the population would have leaked nudes, anyway.

一想到要站起来The thought of having to stand up,移动35英尺 每走一步要调动172块肌肉exert 172 muscles each step for 35 feet,就为了坐在冰凉的陶瓷坐便器上just so I can sit on cold porcelain日复一日地排出体内毒素and piss out toxins over and over again for the rest of my life我就觉得人生是一个漫长且磨人的玩笑makes the whole concept of living feel like one long, sadistic joke.但抑郁最磨人的一点是But the absolute worst part of depression你明知自己抑郁了is that even though you know you're depressed,却依然无可救药地越陷越深you're unable to stop yourself from getting worse

抑郁的另一症状就是The other thing about depression is让人丧失时间概念it kind of collapses time.突然之间 全部记忆混杂交织Suddenly, you find your whole days blending together无穷无尽 令人窒息to create one endless and suffocating loop.抑郁后 人会试图回想愉悦的瞬间So you find yourself trying to remember the things that made you happy.但大脑会一点点蚕食欣快的回忆But slowly, your brain begins to erase every memory that ever brought you joy.最终And eventually,脑中仅剩人生中沉闷压抑的记忆all you can think about is how life has always been this way.人就会日渐消沉And will only continue to be this way.

曾经有个心理医生说 我压抑的状态会起起落落I had a therapist once who said that these states will wax and wane.我妈因此松了一口气Which gave my mother relief,因为就算我犯病了because it meant that in the bad times,总也会好起来there would be good times.但她也因此焦灼难安But it also gave her anxiety因为就算我一时没事because it meant that in the good times,总也有抑郁发作的一天there would be bad times.我一直很不解It always confused me,因为我不懂"起落"的意思because I didn't really know what it meant.但听起来比我自己的形容更让人安心But it did sound a lot calmer than the way I would describe it.我得继续服药There you go. How you feel? Okay?我知道你现在很低落 宝贝I know you're feeling low right now, baby.但你没有故态复萌 说明你的症状有所缓解But the fact that you didn't turn back means you're gettin' better.没错It does.一定是这样It does.当然了 我之后才领悟到Granted, I didn't realize until later"起起落落"的真正含义what waxing and waning implied.抑郁无法根除 会反复发作That these feelings were fixed and constant我的余生都将与抑郁作伴and would never end for the rest of my life.

我住院观察了三天And kept me there for three days.其实住院可好了It was actually really nice.我超喜欢医院I love hospitals.要是余生都能在医院度过 我绝对没意见If I could spend the rest of my life in a hospital, I would.因为住院时Because when you're in a hospital,可以做个米虫you have zero responsibilities.医护人员会保证你吃饱睡好 身体棒棒They make sure you eat, sleep, stay hydrated,如遇不测 医生总能及时出现and if anything bad happens, there's always a doctor nearby.谢谢Thank you.发生大规模枪击案时 待在医院最明智了It's also the best place to be in the event of a mass shooting,只要外科医生没死光光就行unless the gunman kills all the surgeons.关键是 我在医院无忧无虑The point is, I had zero anxiety.

我昨晚写信时and as I sat down last night to write it,忍不住回想你出生那天的场景I couldn't stop thinking about the day you were born.我第一次将你抱入臂弯Holding you in my arms for the first time,怜爱地看着你looking down at you,看着你可爱动人的小脸your sweet, beautiful face...我这辈子从未如此充满爱意 欢欣愉悦I had never felt so much love and joy in my entire life.于是我想到...And I thought that...若是那一刻 有人能提醒我该多好what if in that moment I heard a voice,通晓万物的人生旁白对我低语some omniscient narrator who said,"接下来将会如此""Here's what's going to happen."你的女儿将会风趣幽默 聪明伶俐 开朗大方""Your daughter is gonna be funny, and smart, and outgoing,"她的灵气从小便会显现"You'll see it instantly, from a young age.""她将会魅力四射 广交朋友""She'll be charismatic and make friends easily.""她将会温柔善良 心思细腻""She'll be kind and sensitive."细腻到敏感""Maybe too sensitive."她不会是个乖乖女""She won't be an easy child."她会很叛逆"She'll struggle.""因此 你将很难看懂她""And in turn, you'll struggle to understand her.""你将跟不上她的思维""To understand what's going on inside of her head."无法理解那些难以摆脱的梦魇""The night terrors that can't be interrupted."很多时候 晚饭后""The times after dinner where"她会坐在餐桌旁""She'll just sit at the kitchen table"一遍遍数着天花板砖的数量and count the tiles over and over,"数到自己上气不接下气""Until she hyperventilates."你会用尽全力拥她入怀 安慰她""To fight to hold her in your arms, to tell her it's okay.""你们将难以平静 她会摔打东西 大吼大叫""To calm down. The kicking. The screaming."她会害怕受伤""The anxiety of being harmed."她会日夜煎熬""The transitions from day to night,"从家中到学校 每顿饭皆是如此""From home to school, from meal to meal."她会担心失去父母和妹妹"Of losing her mother or father or little sister.""她害怕会孤苦伶仃"- "Of being alone."我很喜欢她I really like her."她会恐慌发作 情绪波动 迷惑不解 精神分裂""The panic attacks, mood swings, confusion, disorganization"她会愤怒狂躁""And all that rage."不仅生你的气 也会恼恨自己""Not just at you, but at herself."最煎熬的是...""And the tough part i"她无法自救 而你也将束手无策""you'll feel as helpless to help her as she does herself.""你将犯下大大小小的错误""You'll make mistakes. Small ones and big ones."你会慌忙求助 病急乱投医""You'll look for help from people who aren't helpful."你求助之人或许根本不了解情况""Or who don't actually understand what's happening.""内疚感将因此伴你终生""And the guilt will never leave you.""但若你保持镇定 温柔耐心""But if you remain calm and patient,"若你能仔细聆听""If you listen closely,"你便能渐渐理解她""理解她为何重复地数了一遍又一遍""The counting, the repetition,"理解她对于对称的执着""the need for symmetry."若你睡前亲吻了她的左脸""That if you kiss her left cheek before bed,"一定也要亲吻她的右脸""You have to kiss her right cheek."还有额头 下巴""And her forehead. Then her chin."因为这样才平衡稳定""That it's about balance, stability."这样她才能疏导情绪 捋顺思绪""The need to organize her feelings and thoughts, so..."这样她才能平静下来"she can breathe easier.""你将得到片刻的喘息""And there will be moments of relief,"你们俩都能松一口气""In her and in you."这些时刻平静安宁 顺心满足""Moments that feel so normal, and calm, and rewarding that..."你会希望平淡的幸福能够天长地久""You'll find yourself praying they last forever."可她还小""Even though she's only a child,"糟心事还在后面呢"And all the hard parts have yet to even come."16岁时""And at the age of 16,"她会吸毒过量""She'll overdose,"昏迷四天""Spend four days in a coma,"生死未卜""And you won't know if she'll live or die."但等她醒来""But when she wakes up,"她会有机会戒毒""She'll be given the opportunity to get clean,"改过自新""To become a different person,"完善自己""A better person."但有一点你无能为力""Here's the toughest part."不论你怎么说 怎么做 怎么想""No matter what you say, or do, or wish,"决定权都在她手中""The decision will be all hers."你只能心怀希望""And all you can do is hope"希望她能给自己一个重新来过的机会"

凯特Kat.万一现在就是我们人生的高光时刻呢What if these are, like, the big moments in life?我妈总说Like, my mom always talks about高中是她人生的里程碑式高光时刻how high school was like this big, monumental part of her life.可她都半老徐娘了 居然还对高中念念不忘But I cannot imagine being 40 and looking back at this, like, "Wow."因为多数人在高中达到了人生巅峰Yeah, but that's because most people peak in high school.我肯定还没达到巅峰...I definitely haven't peaked, so...我感觉自己还没长大呢I feel like I'm not even a person yet.我也就攀登到巅峰的四分之一吧Yeah, I'm definitely at, like, 25 percent peakness.我好像达到巅峰了I feel like I'm at a hundred.但我还能升得更高But I can definitely get to 150.讲真 我都没想到自己能撑到现在Honestly, I never thought I'd make it this far.什么意思What do you mean?我总是提心吊胆 惶惶不安I don't know. I just always had, like, this overwhelming anxiety我总觉得一定会出事that something bad would happen.说实话 去年夏天In all fairness, last summer,我有三周一直以为你死了there were, like, three weeks where I thought you were dead.

偶然看了这部电影的高清。印象深刻就是女主的照片，关注点在相机型号。不停快进状态，想知道故事梗概，直到快进完了也不知所云。

这片子的魅力像榴莲，第一次断然不知好处。但是胜在已能勾魂。既然知道没啥情节，再看时心态就摆正了，不急不徐，特别放松，反而喜欢上了这部小清新的影片。说是小清新，其实若无生活的阅历，还真品不出滋味。

每次在一个独处的午后，阳台上晒着衣服，日光斜照，洗衣液香气似有似无，空气湿润又温馨，家里窗明几净，我要么会想起林徽因的那篇

散文，要么就特别想重温《你好，安妮》。

从女主我见识到了中年女人也可以依然享受自己的魅力，而且收放自如，发乎情，止乎礼。对感情就像豆友珠玉在前的总结:不抱不切实际的幻想，不指望下任的拯救。通透但不耽误享受生活享受异性的照拂。

从法国男人雅克身上也学到了很多，对于生活的热爱，使得这个其貌不扬的男人魅力四射。生活、美女、艺术，无不热爱，信手拈来，娓娓而谈，真正懂得其中真味。就算是夸起美女来，也是由衷赞赏并且夸到人家心里，有真知灼见又恰如其分。说到底，人家也是有内涵的人，不然哪里能够欣赏时光赋予中老年妇女那有如年份酒一样的隽永滋味呢……

鲜花、美酒、美食、野餐、古堡、博物馆；美人依旧，真丝、亚麻、开司米；蓝天、白云、敞篷车。还有弥漫其中的丝丝缕缕暧昧滋味，那是不同于情欲更高的境界。试问，哪个女人不喜欢呢？

第四季芬恩成年，要接替约翰的位置，家族女人们要找个女人给芬恩破处，让他变成一个真正的男人，因为这是男孩变成男人必须经历的关卡，

之后芬恩觉得对女人心有愧疚，而且又觉得女人和他睡只是为了钱

而且汤米教芬恩：不要给别人道歉，言下之意，第一层意思是不要觉得睡了女人就是做了对不起女人的事情，男人是不会这样的。

第二层意思，不管是什么人，大家都一样的，不要老是觉得愧对别人，或者不好意思，这样别人自然而然会把这个人放到低位，而自己处于高位。就好像生活中那些不好意思麻烦别人，不敢要求别人的人，就是会被别人看低一等。

“屈臣氏”小姐艾玛·沃森（Emma Watson）和“老戏骨”汤姆·汉克斯（Tom Hanks）合作了一部电影《圆圈》（The Circle）。该片的首映礼于北美时间4月28日举行，亮相纽约翠贝卡电影节。但是这部围绕着互联网，围绕着社交的影片是一部剧情+科幻+惊悚的电影，还是看点十足的。

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